It is obvious that the same event or the same contact causes pleasure in one and pain in another, depending on the inner attitude taken by each one.
[Based on Aphorism<137>- There is no iron or ineffugable law that a given contact shall create pain or pleasure; it is the way the soul meets the rush or pressure of Brahman upon the members from outside them that determines either reaction.] <ref>http://incarnateword.in/cwm/10/aphorism-137#p2</ref>
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